I was so sad to hear that Larry Clifton had died. I didn’t know Larry very well at all, but with his death comes the realization that the opportunity to reconnect with him will never happen and we have all missed out on a chance to really know him and his life since we left Childress High School. It is obvious from his obituary and from Jennifer’s conversation with his wife and daughter that Larry was well loved and he will be missed by his family.
I join Jennifer in expressing my sympathy to everyone concerned. I am grateful that as two of his old classmates Jennifer and I are able to share this small tribute to him on the blog.
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It seems that no matter how much time passes or how far away we have gone, most of us are always happy to hear news about Childress. Jim and I still take the Childress Index and check it out each time it arrives to see what is taking place in the “city” where we spent much of our young lives. We are both so grateful that there are still young and older leaders in the community who continue to step up in order to ensure that Childress remains a viable place for families to live and raise their children. In the Lifestyles section of the Sunday, April 27 Amarillo Globe-News, Childress is featured for a couple of reasons. One article is entitled Childress looks to future, and can be read online at the Globe-News website. The article takes a look at the ways the Childress County Heritage Museum is working to preserve the history of Childress.
The other article concerns the search by the Childress Chamber of Commerce for a new slogan to replace the current slogan “Gateway to the Panhandle” in an effort to update the community image. There is a contest which will last to the middle of May to solicit suggestions for the new slogan. Interestingly enough many want to really promote Childress as a great place for hunting.
Additionally a bright red restored 1957 Chevrolet 210 coupe is being raffled off to raise money for the Renovations for the Palace Theater. 1,200 raffle tickets will be sold for $100 each. I have posted a picture and more information at Classic 1957 Chevy 210
in Short Notes.
From what we can gather from the good folks in Childress, the Childress Index, and the Amarillo Globe News, these are just a few examples of efforts to keep Childress growing and going! Kudos and a heart felt thanks to everyone. The Class of 1963 is grateful to still have a proud community to come home to.
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Many of you, especially the guys, probably remember Dick Risenhoover who coached many of your sports teams when you were just little guys. One of his legacies was to establish Kids Inc in Childress. Over the years, Jim has told me many Dick Risenhoover stories, and it is obvious that he is very grateful to have had someone so special as a role model. A website has been created to share stories, information and photos of Coach Risenhoover. Many of you will enjoy a visit to the site. I am grateful to Shelia Davis Martinez and Harold Simmons for sending the information to us. The tributes to Coach R. are multiplying on the ciculating emails.
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I am so grateful that we are having a gorgeous spring here in Amarillo. Despite the wind, the trees are sprouting leaves once more, the grass is green again, and the spring flowers have brought me so much pleasure this year. As I have mentioned in previous posts, we, for the first time planted bulbs and I have not been disappointed. It is so much fun to look outside every day to see what is new in the yard. We have seen red, yellow, purple, and pink tulips as well as many other colors and varieties of flowers. I am only sad that they don’t last longer. Jim couldn’t resist digging another flower bed for “me” so tomorrow we are off to have a great adventure selecting just the right plants. As always it is a challenge to make sure that the sun lovers are happy and the shade lovers are protected and so on. I am, also, grateful that both Jim and I enjoy our yard and that it is something we can still do for and with one another.
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For a few days the blog was awfully quiet. As we on occasion have been reminded, most everyone is too busy living life to have much time to look back. The greatest benefit for me of the Class of 1963 blogs has been the joy of hearing from so many people from our class. I love exchanging email with everyone and I love the anticipation of meeting face to face either in Las Vegas or at one of the mini-reunion dinners we would like to plan. To me this isn’t a matter of looking back, but rather looking forward to new or renewed friendships. Our lives can only be enriched by making the effort to reach out to old and new friends. Over the last few days we have heard from Patsy Poling Sledge and Sharon Malloy Smotherman Kelly. I am so grateful that they have taken the time read the blog and make comments. Both have promised to send bios to share with us and both are eager to reconnect with old friends.
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Today when I googled the phrase “being grateful” there were 3,150,000 results. Because I had a hard time selecting my final thought for this post, I have chosen three that I love:
"When a person doesn't have gratitude, something is missing in his or her humanity. A person can almost be defined by his or her attitude toward gratitude."-- Elie Wiesel
"Try leaving a friendly trail of little sparks of gratitude on your daily trips. You will be surprised how they will set small flames of friendship that will be rose beacons on your next visit."-- Dale Carnegie: How to Win Friends and Influence People
"Give thanks for a little and you will find a lot."-- Hausa proverb (Nigeria)
Just a thought
Links to Related Blogs Class of 1963
Announcing a new Facebook Group and a new Blog
We have created a new Facebook Group called
The Childress (Texas) High School Classes of 1960-1966
Created for anyone from the Childress (Texas) High School classes of 1960-1966 who is looking to reconnect or connect with former friends and classmates.
If you are currently a member of Facebook or if you are planning to become a member of Facebook, we invite you to join the group. Contact either Nicki or Jennifer for information.
You are also invited to visit our new blog, Voices From the Class of '63,
Monday, April 28, 2008
Just a thought....Part Two
Posted by Nicki Wilcoxson at 1:34 PM
Labels: Childress High School Class of 1963, Childress Texas, Death of a Classmate, Gratitude
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2 comments:
Nicki, Jennifer, I would like to personally thank you for the very well done tribute to Larry. He was my second cousin and I do have many fond memories of him while we were growing up together. He was a wonderful person, funny and always kind. Our days go all the way back to when toilet were not allowed inside the house, if you can imagine that!!
A few "Short Notes" of my own....
I too am happy that we have heard from Sharon Molloy Smothermon Kelley and Patsy Poling Sledge, as well as Selinda Hamilton Heilig. Sharon and I have exchanged personal e-mails, and it was good to "talk" with her again from across the decades.
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I had a nice telephone conversation last week with Sandi Dement DeVeau, to extend condolences on the recent loss of her mother. She said again that she was sorry she couldn't make the recent dinner in Dallas, and we are hoping to get together in the near future.
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Phil Tutor, among the "missing" (blog and e-mail-wise) since the dinner at Pappadeaux's, wrote to say: "Hey! Don't pay the ransom, I escaped! Been busier than a one legged man in a butt kicking contest. All is well though. The 'heatherns' as well as church members are on a rampage. Say Hi to all. Blessings on you! The Bish".
My reply to Phil was: "Pay the ransom? Who do you think paid them to kidnap you?" We are glad that he is back among the blogging.... (grin)
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Driscilla Dehtan Storrs and I exchanged e-mails after her (much appreciated) comment to the "Words" post, and I am delighted to have "reconnected" with her as well. We do need to work on a mini-reunion in the Lubbock area, since so many of our classmates seem to be there. These mini-reunions are really quite wonderful ... as was the Wimberley Weekend in October 2001, the brunch at Pat's house in Amarillo last fall, and the Pappadeaux's dinner, to name just a few.
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I've also recently exchanged e-mails with John David Steed, spurred by a comment John left on the "Classmates" website, which said:
"Hello Jennifer: My very first memory of Jennifer was when I was probably in the second or third grade. We attended the same Sunday school class at the Church of Christ, and every week when the teacher asked who was a daily bible reader, Jennifer always was. Each week I would invariably fall asleep or forget to read one or two days a week, therefore I could never respond yes to the question."
John wrote that he is a lobbyist for Texas Medical Doctors, and is also married to a doctor, who practices in the Dallas-Fort Worth Metroplex area. John spends a lot of his time working in Austin, but when he is "home", his neighbors include Sandra Brown, the novelist, and Barry Corbin, the actor ("Northern Exposure" among other credits).
He added: "And between them is a little boy, not too little any more, from Childress, that has been to more far away places, seen more and done more than he could have ever dreamed while he was in that little town growing up with his horses, cows, goats, chickens, and cotton."
We are also planning to get together with John as soon as it can be arranged and I know we will enjoy swapping stories of far away places, and things we have seen and done since we turned our tassels....
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I've had e-mails from Joe Don (always a pleasure to see his name in my Inbox), who is doing well and is in touch with several of our classmates.
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I talked with Mike Spradley this morning, who sounds wonderful as always, although he is undergoing more chemotherapy, with perhaps surgery in the coming weeks. I told Mike that he is most assuredly in our thoughts and prayers, as ever.
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Sheila, thank you for both your comments on our classmate (your cousin) Larry Clifton. We appreciate your sharing your special memories with us, and with his family.
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Clara, it is always good to see your name on the blog, and we thank you for your comments on Larry Clifton and to the "Words" post ... although I must say that "inept" would be possibly the LAST word I would think of in connection with you. I am pleased that you enjoyed the post....
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Nicki, I enjoyed the "gratitude" quotes at the end of your post ... particularly the one from Elie Wiesel, a Nazi concentration camp survivor (like Viktor Frankl) and a determined fighter for peace and human rights and dignity over the past decades. Wiesel has been a favorite of mine since I read "Night" back at CHS. I've read many of his books since then and I am always moved by his thoughts. Wiesel received the Nobel Peace Prize in 1986, and another of his wonderful quotes is from his address at that time:
"Just as man cannot live without dreams, he cannot live without hope. If dreams reflect the past, hope summons the future."
Without detracting from the gravity and beauty of Wiesel's words, as I reread my e-mails from my "old" friends, I know I am blessed with many hopes for the future, and with the gifts of renewed friendships and "connections" to come....
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